Frequently Asked Questions
Q. How do I find what I'm looking for on your site?
A. Click on the "Search by City" link at the top. You'll be taken to a menu of cities. Each city has information on escorts, massage, brothels, strip clubs and swingers.
Q. How much should I pay for sex in Mexico?
A. This differs from city to city. We try to have a price range for you. The lowest you'll pay for an ugly girl is $300 pesos. At 20:1 exchange rate, that's $15 USD. You usually don't pay more than $2,500 pesos for the top chicas. Of course, there are exceptions on both the high and low end. Anything under $1,000 pesos for a beautiful young girl is a bargain. It's like $50 USD, depending on the exchange rate. If you are an experienced hobbyist, never pay more than half of what you would pay in the U.S. or Canada. The exception for this is kissing, cum in mouth blowjobs and anal sex. Mexican girls aren't big on "besos", "terminar en la boca" or "sexo anal". If you can find a girl who'll do it, you're going to pay extra. You can get an idea of prices by browsing through our website.
Q. I only speak English. How can I talk to the escorts to set an appointment? How do I communicate in a strip club or brothel?
A. Contact us if you are looking for an escort to come to your hotel. girl. If you want to get a strip club girl, make sure there's someone there who speaks both English and Spanish. Otherwise, use a translation app on your phone.
Q. How do I place the call? I don't know how to use the Mexican phone system.
A. Click here for a link to phone instructions. It's pretty easy when you've done it once or twice.
Q. Is it safe?
A. It's probably more safe to use sexual services in Mexico than in the U.S. If safety is your primary concern, pay more to use an escort service when available. You'll pay a little more, but you won't be out of your hotel room and the girls are not likely to steal. The worst thing that usually happens is that guys don't read the ads closely, and end up with a travesti. (Transvestite. Shemale. Tranny. Ladyboy. Chick with dick.) Prostitution is more or less legal in Mexico, though the laws are enforced differently in different cities. Escort services, strip clubs and casa de citas make a serious effort to protect their customers.
Q. How can I tell a scam?
A. Sometimes it can be hard to tell. For example, in Cabo, there is a scam running where the escorts drug the customers then call their bosses. You'll usually meet these hookers in a normal club. The waiter will bring her to your table. (He's in on it.) You go back to your place, and she'll ask to have a drink before sex. Then she'll slip a powder into your drink. You'll wake up the next day. If you're in a hotel, they rob you of cash, jewelry and identification. If you have a residence in Cabo, the bosses (mafia guys from a Sinaloa Cartel) pull a pickup to your front door and empty the house. Where are the police? Taking part of the profit, of course. Welcome to Mexico. A nationwide scam now is the "deposit" game. You contact a "girl" and "she" sends you an email or Whatsapp message promising sexual delights if you'll just send a good faith deposit. There's no girl, there will be no sex, the whole point is to get you to send a deposit. Don't believe us? Run a Google check on any phone number demanding a deposit. You'll see ads, often using the same photos, running in 20 different cities on the same day. Either the whore owns a private jet, or you're going to get robbed. Use common sense. It's your best protection in Mexico.
Q. Why are the faces blurred in so many escort photos?
A. Don't assume they are hiding an ugly face. That's rare. The independent escorts who have their faces blurred in photos have hopes of returning to Amateur status. They don't want Mom to know where all the pretty clothes are coming from, or their brothers to have to be embarrassed. It's a poor country. Factory girls only earn the equivalent of a few hundred US dollars a month, and these jobs are difficult to get. The Semi-Pro escorts are young girls living at home and helping the family, students putting themselves through school or housewives helping with expenses. They aren't tragic victims. They often enjoy the encounter as much as you do. Tip generously for good service.
Q. Why do some girls only have email addresses?
A. Some prostitutes get tired of the constant ringing of their cell phone, when all too often the call is not serious. Someone has to be serious to write an email. The other reason is when they don't intend to meet you. These are "cam girls". For about half the rate of a real sexual encounter, these girls put on a show for you that you can watch live on your computer. It's safe sex (masturbation) and as soon as you're done you can roll over and go to sleep!
Q. What's different about hookers in Mexico?
A. The escorts are generally younger, prettier and far less expensive. Prices start at $300 pesos (about $15 USD at a 20:1 exchange rate.) Most are Semi-Pros, and only try the lifestyle for a short time. One strange difference is that the girls are afraid to come to your residence. If you have rented a house, condo or apartment, most girls will refuse to come to you. Another difference is the strip clubs. You can have sex (usually a blowjob, except in Tijuana) right there in the club. See "strip clubs" in the individual city you are going to for more information.
Q. What's different about Mexican men, Canadian and American men?
A. Mexican men, even ruthless cartel killers, are often spoiled mama's boys who don't know how to satisfy their women. They climb on, do their business, climb off and leave. American men like more foreplay, love to start with kisses, move to oral sex, (and often like to give oral sex as well as get it), do different positions and satisfy their partner by lasting much longer. American men appreciate women more, are far more charming with the women, more sensuous and tip well for good service. Canadian men are exactly the same as American men, except they are not known as big tippers. LOL!
Q. Do I need to know Spanish?
A. It always helps. In the border towns and the most popular tourist cities, you might get by with "Ingles solamente". In most cities, you will need a few words to explain what you want and to negotiate a price. See the Vocabulary page for a few useful words and phrases. Use our Abbreviations if you need help.
Q. Are all massage parlors whore houses?
A. Actually, a very small percentage offer sex. When you do find one, all you usually get is an expensive hand job. Massage Parlors as whore houses are an American and Canadian institution. Esteticas masculinas are similar to massage parlors. The girls line up, you pick one, and you're taken to a room with a massage table. They are most popular in Guadalajara and Manzanillo but you'll find "esteticas masculinas" throughout central Mexico.
Q. Do the Mexican Escorts kiss?
A. Mexican putas usually don't understand the concept of GFE (girlfriend experience). The word for kisses is "besos". GFE girls cost more money. Your average exotic dancer at a strip club never kisses. Same for the prostitutes in the brothels. (Casa de citas.) All our ads try to clearly mark the GFE girls.
Q. Can I trust taxi drivers?
A. Yes and no. They usually have a girl or two, and they are often beautiful. They also know where everything is located; strip clubs, casa de citas and the areas where the street action is the most intense. In the larger cities with many visitors, they also may earn commissions by delivering you. This is not in itself bad, but you could pay extra to be delivered to the worst club in town. Trust your instincts. Better, do the research in advance and know where you want to go.
Q. What about drugs?
A. Don't buy drugs in Mexico. You are entering another level of risk. If you really want drugs, nothing we say here will change your mind. However, if you make a mistake buying drugs you can easily get robbed, killed or arrested. Remember, prostitution is legal (more or less) in Mexico. Drugs aren't. Stick with girls, beer and tequila.
Q. What about disease?
A. Mexico isn't Africa. The girls are clean, and practice safe sex more than American women. Use a condom for vaginal and anal sex. Oral sex is usually safe without a condom. (BBBJ, or bareback blowjob). However, 90% of the prostitutes you will meet in Mexico won't do a BBBJ. (Oral stimulation without condom.) Individual prostitutes often don't have condoms. Sometimes there is an extra (and ridiculously high) price for a condom. Buy your condoms before your adventure. There are pharmacies everywhere. The last thing you want to do is pay an individual girl and then have everything stop because you don't have protection. You won't get sex, and you won't get your money back. Just say "condom" in English. It's close enough to the Spanish pronunciation. (Condon.) Registered sex workers are required to have regular health inspections. However, many independent girls don't want their husbands, boyfriend, families and friends to know what they are doing, so they don't get a health card.
Q. How did the term "red light district" come about?
A. Red lights and prostitution had long enjoyed a close relationship before The Police immortalized it in their ballad to ‘Roxanne’. Rail workers at the turn of the twentieth century would leave their red lanterns outside a prostitute’s house while they were busy inside, so they could be easily found in case of emergency. Enterprising women realized they could get free publicity by simply putting out a red lantern of their own. Areas with a lot sex-for-sale businesses came to be known as red-light districts.
Q. Why do I have to search by city?
A. Most people who use this site are going or have already arrived at somewhere specific. We're not expert web developers. It would be too hard to cross-reference the information in a database-driven website.
Q. How do you make your money?
A. We sell advertising. More specifically, we sell placement. The escorts and businesses at the top of the page often pay to be there. The ones at the bottom are there for free. We don't deny placement to anyone. However, we promote the businesses and individuals who help us.
Note: Almost all the girls operate from cell phones. This link is to excellent instructions on how to place calls to Mexican phone numbers. Usually, you just dial 044 first then her 10 digit number. That's if you are already in Mexico, and the girl is local. If the number is still a cell phone but it's a number from a different city, you dial 045 first. (If all the ad numbers begin with "664", and her number starts "322", you can figure she's visiting.) There are other numbers you have to dial first if you're calling from the United States, calling land lines within Mexico, etc. Just click the link above. Choose your scenario (local land line to "out of area" cell, for example). It's just a few extra numbers, and the calls won't cost you much. These women cost a fraction of what a comparable would cost in the U.S. If you don't speak Spanish, offer someone who speaks Spanish and English $50 pesos (about $4) to help you make the call. It's worth it.